Loving Yourself

How important is Loving Yourself?

Loving Yourself

Is it really true that you cannot love others without loving yourself? Yes, I would say it is essential to love yourself. Have you ever met someone who criticises everyone and everything? Nothing will ever be good enough for them, including you. That is a person who does not love themselves. It is not their fault. They probably had an emotionally deprived childhood and are in great pain. And most likely they have no idea what to do about it.

We are all lacking in self love to some extent. What or who do you see when you look in the mirror? Are you able to love that person? If you want to improve your life and your relationship, start right there. Because no matter how wonderful your partner is, if you don’t love yourself, you won’t be able to accept their love. Not only that, but you will put yourself in situations where people don’t treat you well.

The Difference Loving Yourself Makes

In my relationship coaching I come across people who do not love themselves. It is sad but I can only teach them the skills to improve their relationship. I cannot force them to implement them. Without self love, they tend to feel more comfortable staying in their problems. That is why I encourage them to do my self love sessions before working on their relationship. Even still, it is up to them to decide to embrace change. I have seen people in very hard circumstances change their lives for the better. And I have seen people with fewer problems not make much progress. It is all down to whether they love themselves enough to think they deserve a better life.

So today I encourage you to start loving yourself. If you want some help with this, I would love to help you out. My offer to you is try out a powerful coaching call so you can experience it for yourself. It is my gift to you.

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