Can you really transform your relationship?
Yes it is possible. When you use the same bad habits, you get the same unhappy results. When you change your communication, you will transform your relationship. It may feel like you have been trying for years and nothing works. But what have you actually tried? Venting to a stranger might relieve the tension, but it is only temporary. Instructing your spouse not to behave in a certain way is not helpful. That will only be taken as criticism and will cause them to be defensive. Reading out loud from a book and hinting to your spouse “This is you” won’t have a good effect! Have you actually tried any of the methods that work? Do you know what they are?
I am sure I am guilty of using all of those methods outlined above and more. And they didn’t help. They never will! Because they don’t take into account respect for the other person. They are not clear expressions of feelings or needs. Our partners cannot read our minds. When we have a need the only way they can find out about it is if we express it clearly. The same goes for feelings.
Let a Coach Help you Transform your Relationship
What if you express your feelings and needs clearly, but your partner does not know what to do with this knowledge? That is where coaching comes in. I teach my clients to validate and empathize with each other. It takes time. To really learn new communication skills it is important to practice them under the supervision of a trained professional coach. You may not get it right first time. But the great thing is the coach can step in and set you onto the right path again. You may need reminding many times and that is ok. You will soon get the hang of it, and your communication will get much better.
So that is one of the good things you can expect in my online relationship coaching. If you want to try it out, I would love to offer you a powerful coaching call so you can experience it for yourself. It is my gift to you.
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