I want to talk about transformation as opposed to information.


When you read articles and books or watch videos about relationships, what happens? Do you think “That is interesting” and forget about it? Or do you say to yourself “Yes, that describes my partner perfectly!” Maybe that thought makes you feel vindicated. But do you actually change because of what you learn?

For many years I gathered as much information as I could about relationships from books and seminars. The more I knew the worse I felt. This is because I didn’t do anything with the information. There was no transformation of myself.

Transformation is what is needed to turn around a relationship, not just information. You can read every relationship book ever written, but that won’t bring about change. Until you are ready for transformation of yourself, nothing will happen. Or like me, you will only feel worse because of what you learn.

So what can you do? How do you change yourself? I think the most important thing is to question your thinking. We tend to believe what our parents and teachers taught us. And we think that what we read in books is right, because a published author said so. When we question our long held beliefs as well as our thinking, we get closer to our authentic self.

Of course you can do this by yourself. But it is much easier to do with a coach. How do I know? Because when I tried to change myself nothing much happened. It was only when I started with my coaches – yes I have several – that transformation started to occur.

Transformation of the self is one of the things you can learn to do in my online coaching. If you want to try it out, I would love to offer you a powerful coaching call so you can experience it for yourself. It is my gift to you.

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I help women and men like you to love themselves and  connect with their emotionally distant partners, so that they find their happy ever after. I am a Christian but I love working with couples from other faiths too.

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